Post Baby Body

After having children I did not expect my body to look the same as it did before. I realized after my first son how unrealstic that was going to be. He flipped in one night and there were so many stretch  marks I cried. After that I never got any new ones with my other pregnancies. But after I had my daughter my gallbladder went bad. I have 4 incisions from that on my abdomen. They are small but still there. On top of the stretch marks it's awful. Well to add to the looks on my stomach after my last son my appendix ruptured. I had to have a large incision above my belly button and one that went across my bikini line. I have this huge purple scar now in the dead middle of my stomach. Right where it is it bulges out to. Why I am not sure. It never did untill I had the surgery. I can't even look at my mid section anymore. I love my children so much.. But this defenitly one thing I did not anticipate being so extreme. Sigh.. How do I get over this hump of obvious life changing looks. My husband loves me no matter what. That's not the problem. I guess I should just say today while at the mall a lady asked me how far along I was. Thats how much my incision pertrudes out. Also because of my surgery I have yet to start working out. Because I had to get it 9 weeks after giving birth. Oh Life gotta love it right?